It is the ever hesitant mind set, a ridiculous exhibition of efforts to hide, sudden but huge increment of expenses should draw the immediate vigilant attention of the close ones. May be, your close relation has become the victim of drugs.
Psychologically it has been noticed that drug addicts at the initial stage often show such peculiar behaviors. They even try to show resilience to any group meeting or family party.
Perhaps it is the guilty conscious minds of the drug addicts that often prompts them to hide them withing the self developed pseudo shell.
Whatever it may be, such drastic changes in attitude should never escape the eyes of the seniors, guardians or the close relations. Perhaps you have arrived at a stage where consultation with some practitioner of some drug treatment center has become necessary.
A drug addict slowly becomes desperate and start loosing his senses of humiliation or shame slowly. It is found that Heroin may be the alluring drug at an initial stage, but when he starts Marijuana or Crack cocaine, he slowly looses his fear and such a don’t care attitude often draws the attention of others.
It is the responsibility of the parents or even spouses to notice the unnatural behavior of their children or partners respectively. In case of spouse, another significant change is also observed. The cold response even to the highly motivated sexual calls.
If you find your husband or wide to become unnaturally cold or unresponsive, then you should start watching a bit more closely.
We must admit that drug addicts are unfortunate, but this is also true that a careful attention or notice can save him or her at the initial stage only, even much before reaching the drug treatment center!